It Is What It Is: Navigating Education -Your Rights and Your Child’s Potential

If you don’t fight for your child, no one will.

This isn’t just a book.

It’s a battle cry for every parent who has ever sat silently in a school meeting, wiped tears outside a classroom, or questioned their sanity for wanting more for their child.

It Is What It Is isn’t a cliche. It’s the cold phrase parents of special needs children hear too often — when schools fail, when systems stall, when professionals look away.

In this raw, empowering, and eye-opening memoir-guide hybrid, DynamikVicky, a dedicated UK nurse and mother of an autistic child, redefines that phrase with courage, fire, and legal action as she navigates the UK’s special education system.

What’s Inside

A real-life journey from being dismissed to legal victory
The emotional and legal roadmap every SEND parent needs but no one teaches
Scripts and strategies for navigating EHCPs, tribunals, meetings, and mental burnout

A FREE BONUS TOOLKIT packed with

EHCP Review Templates
Advocacy Letter Scripts
Escalation Tracker
Reflection Journals

Have you ever been told:
Let’s wait and see.
He can only come in for one hour a day.
It’s just policy.

Then you NEED this book.

This isn’t a textbook. It’s a weapon in your advocacy arsenal.

Whether your child is just starting school or you’ve been fighting the system for years, this book will help you move from confusion to clarity from fear to fierce action.

Read this if:

You’re battling for your child’s education and inclusion
You’re feeling overwhelmed, unheard, or dismissed
You want to understand the law and use it
You need a guide written by a parent, for parents

Because It is what it is
Until you say, It’s not good enough.

You are your child’s best advocate and this book will make sure you never forget it.